Tuesday 1 April 2014

"There was No Violence In My Marriage" Joseph Benjamin


The handsome Nollywood actor and presenter in a recent interview on the show Rubbin Minds with Ebuka Uchendu discussed his marraige, separation and divorce.

Joseph Benjamin, the handsome popular TV host and actor says there was no violence in his marriage, the Kogi born actor said that the separation was a mutual understanding between him and his ‘ex-wife’ and that they were working on the divorce.
"A lot was misconstrued and I will not hold anyone responsible for it because everyone is entitled to their opinion and for me I believe that when you embark on a journey like that, it is something that, it requires the two people involved to have a certain form of understanding. Let me go a bit spiritual with you here, the Bible says can two work if they do not agree? So there should be some form of agreement.
You guys should have this certain joint that kind of links you up together and if to an extent its not there and one feels that there is a need for you to like maybe, move on, lets be matured about this, let things go in a very calm and subtle manner. So that's basically it. I would say that (this is on a bid to being very particular of what I say) because that is how it was misconstrued. So for me that is what informed the decision and I would say because I am on national television that there was no form of violence. There was no report of infidelity. She is an amazing person, I give her that credit, I would always say that because I am not one who would talk down any human being" he said.
He said that he was not looking at remarrying, as he was focusing more on his job:
I feel so sad when a sweet family like this one decide not to take it any more. Some time decision we take today undermine the future of our kids, we should take them in consideration in any decision we take over our marriages. 

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